Life is all about one thing “See and learn”. It is like a garden of flowers which has various colours and fragrances. Whatever happens around us and whatever perceived, makes us do things. We see many things in life that inspire us and demand us to do certain things and they give us afflatus sometimes to an extent that we precipitate a magnificent yield, making others dumbstruck.
Selection and Rejection
We see myriad things happening around us, some good, some bad and some worst. All these are pretty possible to happen with everyone and can happen to anyone. The key is what we select and what we reject. It shapes our well being. One can see a great athlete and get inspired and take up the sport as a profession and endure to become a great sportsman one day. The impetus drives you there. When one sees an artist or a dancer or a musician, there is some aura that drives us to do the same and gives us a chance to pull out the artist hidden in us. If we can establish these notions properly with pragmatism and enthusiasm, life would see wonders for us. It is not that we need to sit and admire those performing out there but we can too dream and be one like those adored and revered. The fire in our belly is the secret.
Life is an ordeal; we go through much wear and tear both physically and mentally at one stage. The things we look, the people we are with give us confidence and aplomb to pave a path for ourselves where we can be poised. You ought to learn good from good and good from bad too; else the world shows you hell. One also needs such support in life and to take that role you need someone whom you select very carefully. Ideally, parents become role models up to certain age and they exemplify their ability to nurture you through their drudgery and with an equal sense of filial responsibility.
Later this role is taken by a lover or spouse or a life partner. This stage becomes sensitive as people much need involvement in understanding each others personality and backgrounds carefully. The concepts of acceptance, tolerance and cultural background all play pivotal role. Relations are difficult to be made, everyone knows this. It is easy to break a relation than to make it. A person who can place you on a pedestal from where you go ahead without fear just because you have this One person motivating you and making you feel confident. To put yourself in such a role and have one for you a similar role is always a great phenomenon. To have such a person for long time is always a boon and not often we find one such that makes us crave for them with possessiveness. Having them in one’s life is always nice. Nothing happens by chance but a meaning. How we nurture the relation and groom it into a bright and big boon for our life and the person’s life, tells us the entire story that has to be made in future.
Life is a not a cakewalk for anyone but the way we select to react is important. Reject the bad habits, there certainly is much bad around, it need not surprise you as you are not into it. Stay away and keep calm. Address the things that are very pivotal and make them the crux of your life. There are many inspirations around to push you up, look at them and smile that they have something for you to make you go big. Strive to reach where you wanted and where others want to envy seeing you there. Do not forget to make people smile, it is the best gift you give to any, because to bring a smile and comfort on a face in a life that starts and ends with scrambling around, is too costly.
Seeing means a lot, it is up to the individual how much he grasps and makes use of it, everything we see has some meaning – to accept it or to reject it and that is the way to "select it".
